hmm, I will say my ability to combine honesty and humor makes for very unique human interactions, and if you are able to laugh at yourself then you have nothing to worry about. I am a reasonably nice person, however I am honest to a point where I'm not really concerned about having my words misinterpreted by anyone. Those who supposed to understand me will, and those that wont, make it that much easier for me to thankfully ignore them in the future. Being a pragmatic I understand that you can't expect the world to be fair, just because you're fair. It's like expecting a lion not to eat you, just because you don't eat lion. Sad but true. Risk of a reward should never prevent anyone from helping those that can't help themselves. You don't have to be a good person to do that, being a person is good enough.