How to describe myself in a nutshell I'm tall, athletic, free spirited, honest and often quite outgoing. Definitely a what you see is what you get guy. If you like what you hear so far the first requirement in getting to know me is you have to love kids, that works out well because I have 10 and 8 year old boys. Having kids is easily the most spectacular thing I've ever done. How often do you want something really bad for a long time and then when it happens, it actually exceeds your wildest expectations. While I love spending time with my kids I need my own time also. If I'm not with my kids there's a good chance I'll be on a softball field, health club, at an Illinois football game or perhaps out to dinner or a movie, just having fun.