First off, I have a great new job and you will have to relocate ...there are several upscale neighborhoods here. A nice Jewish community. If your into romance.....I'm your man. I am exactly what you see unlike the fakes in cyberspace. Hey POOL IS OPEN and came home tonight and saw someone unstrap her bikini and getting tan!!!!!!!!!! If you are over issues with trust, jealousy, fear, abandonment, security, inadequacy, low self esteem...talk to me. I would like one more healthy relationship to last a lifetime. New Yorker uproots to Midwest from Cherry Hill, NJ and is finally ready to date after 7 months here training/studying with new job! I will respect, honor and support your needs, feelings and desires. I don't play games and don't put others aside. Don't sweat the small stuff. I enjoy what my partner wants to do one day and me the next...a balance. . Enjoy tennis, bowling, music, arts, reading, snowboarding, snorkling/kyaking, exploring, traveling, barbecue/cooking, fine wine/dining, beaches, lakes, yoga/meditation, basketball, cultural events, shows, movies, food channel, DEXTER, I like a quiet evening at home hanging out aside my wood fireplace or pool and we can discuss what is important to us. I believe the first date is the most important date in the relationship! Love is a rope. Give a man enough rope and he'll wish......he had someone to hang onto.