I'm a secure, confident, self made guy, that knows what is important in life; a fabulous sense of humor and honesty is a must in all my relationships. Truth, loyalty and honor are my code. Friendships are the most important thing in my world. A creative sense of humor, really turns me on and gets me very excited. I'm passionate about travel, and I'm very adventurous. I'm an accomplished Writer & Poet and I am into a healthy lifestyle which includes all outdoor activities, especially when it involves tennis, snorkeling in the islands or waterskiing . I love water, sand, and lots of candles. I'm into martial arts. I love cooking, fine dining, and red wine by a roaring fireplace. I get high marks when it comes to total uninhibited communication. Communication is the most critical ingredient for a superb friendship and for an intimate physical connection.(Don't forget my need for humor) I love a comical Romance! Eye contact is very important to me. I love to have conversations with special people and communicate with my eyes. Sometimes words can't say enough. In addition to physical chemistry, I must have spiritual and emotional chemistry. My ideal lady will look as good in a pair of jeans/or a tailored business suit. She can take care of herself, but would love to have a reliable, predictable, guy that she can count on, to make her smile and laugh any where and any time. My Lady will fight for my well being as I will fight for hers. I am quite theatrical and try to have at least one or two good laughs every day. I am not into game playing except on the courts. I like to have a Saturday night date every week that is designed to be thoughtfully Romantic. Lastly, I never go to bed angry. I'm a lover, not a fighter, but I can fight with the best of them. When it comes to my lady, her happiness is my #1 priority.