hi there, just thought i would drop you a line to say hi, and to see if you would like to chat. I am new at this too, have tried a few dating services but did not like them. I want you to know i am not looking for a one night stand but like you I am looking for someone who is serious about their life and getting total fullness out of it. I know i am but unlike other people i have love at the top of my list. i have tried in the past to find someone only to be disappointed and so i gave up for a while. well here i am again. i will not bother you with all kinds of details, but will tell you i am a man who is 38 and 6'2 and i am self employed.