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Looking to meet a sincere and honest person with whom to share wonderful times with. Apparently this turns out to be a monumental search when it should really be a cinch. My kids are GREAT and alot of fun. My 23 y.o. daughter recently graduated Tulane in New Orleans, and will be now attending dental school. . My twins (boy/girl) will be sophomores in High School (16 yrs old), live FT with their mother (a 1/2 hour away) and they are very sweet kids (hhhhhmmm...ok/ok - sometimes "a bit difficult, and disrespectful" kids...but thats kind of ¨age appropriate¨..... I have no interest in "long distance" dating.....its simply too difficult. As it is, I commute 100 miles daily (round trip) to my dental practice on Staten Island , from my home in West Orange, New Jersey. I prefer LOCAL socializing as it is simply "easier on the soul" (if someone wished to drive, or train, to West Orange, I would embrace that warmly)......local is also easier in spending more spur-of-the-moments together and certainly easier to just spend quality, peaceful times together without having to book-out dinner in advance......
If you've only got 1 picture posted, or your pictures have kids or dogs on your lap, or you're bent over your loving aging parents, or peeking out from behind a beautiful tree, or the flowing waters of venice (or the eiffel tower) i'm going to ask you for a FEW CLEAR pictures, of YOU! Guys are here to date YOU, not your poouch (even though your poouch IS very cute)- - - whats fair is fair - - - much of initiating is about pictures, whether you like to acknowledge it or not....it simply is
In general, Kindness, Warm and a Sincere Smile wins over How many vacations you've taken, Fancy clothes , Stress and Traffic....one gal wouldn't meet me because I wear clogs while treating patients in scrubs, and sometimes I wear clogs when not seeing patients - so she refused to meet if I had any intentions of wearing clogs should we get together for drinks, since it was her view that a guy should "dress to impress"...yikes.... ....anyway: I truly appreciate enthusiasm, and an upbeat positive spin to life rather than "ex-bashing". BE NICE! - No yelling No fighting. Mutual appreciation, support and respect are wonderful values. Mellow-yellow. EASY. Fun, Laughter - A refreshing sincere smile....BE NICE!............. It doesn't get much easier than that