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Looking to meet a sincere and honest person with whom to share wonderful times with. Apparently this turns out to be a monumental search when it should really be a cinch. My kids are GREAT and alot of fun. My 23 y.o. daughter graduated Tulane in New Orleans, and is now in her 2nd year at dental school., here in the NE. My twins (boy/girl) are juniors in High School (17 yrs old), live FT with their mother (a 1/2 hour away) and they are very sweet kids (hhhhhmmm...ok/ok - sometimes "a bit difficult, and disrespectful" kids...but thats sort of ¨age appropriate¨..... I have no interest in "long distance" dating.....its simply too difficult. As it is, I commute 100 miles daily (round trip) to my dental practice on Staten Island , from my home in West Orange, New Jersey......local is also easier in spending more "spur-of-the-moments " together and certainly easier to just spend quality, peaceful times together without having to book-out dinner in advance......
If you've only got 1 picture posted, or your pictures have kids or dogs on your lap, or you're bent over your loving aging parents, or peeking out from behind a beautiful tree, or the flowing waters of venice (or the eiffel tower) i'm going to ask you for a FEW CLEAR pictures, of YOU! Guys are here to date YOU, not your poouch (even though your poouch IS very cute)- - - whats fair is fair - - - much of initiating is about pictures, whether you like to acknowledge it or not....it simply is....PULEAZZZZ do not post BLURRY pictures nowadays we ALL have hundreds of pictures....the blurry picture implies you're hiding something or that the picture is at least 10 years old! - - and that applies to the guys too!
In general, Kindness, a Warm and a Sincere Smile wins over How many vacations you've taken, Fancy clothes , Stress and Traffic....one gal wouldn't meet me because I wear clogs ..... she refused to meet if I had any intentions of wearing clogs should we get together for drinks, since it was her view that a guy should "dress to impress"...NO VIEWS are dress to be comfortable and real.....this "dress to impress" idea is something i clearly do NOT embrace........anywa y: I do appreciate enthusiasm, and an upbeat positive spin to life rather than "ex-bashing". BE NICE! - No yelling No fighting. Mutual appreciation, support and respect are wonderful values. Mellow-yellow. EASY. Fun, Laughter - A refreshing sincere smile....BE NICE!............. It doesn't get much easier than that