ok, this is my story and I'm sticking to it. At this point in my life I'm not looking to reinvent myself but I'd like to find someone who can share my slightly whimsical way of looking at the world. I have two (barely) grown sons who live in New York. I've been a free-lance cameraman all my life. I did twenty years in the movie business and I'm now a Videographer. (I may have shot your kid's bar-mitzvah.) I've ridden my motorcycle cross-country, and I'll probably try to talk you into getting your own. Last year I read over a hundred mystery/suspense novels (some non-fiction as well) and watched almost zero television. I'm saving up to buy my first suit, in case one day I need one.