If I had to describe myself, I guess the contradictory description would be a cynic who is a romantic at heart. Known for my dry sarcastic wit. I am drawn to people who are passionate about what they do. Want a best friend as well as a lover. (Sounds corny but I am talking in an ideal world). While looks are important, I am more interested in what is in the inside of a person. I want someone who can challenge me physically, emotionally and intellectually.I am most passionate about my family. Spending time with my niece, nephew and dog are my current priorities. I enjoy sports especially playing tennis. Just got back from winning a gold medal at the GayGames.I am very analytical and mechanically inclined. I put together most of my furniture myself. My day is off to a bad start if I have not done the NY Times crossword puzzle. It is an obsession. Passed down from generation to generation.