hi. my name is Carli. so here goes. i recently turned 31- i am single once again :o.. ive been off & on jdate for yrs now... my parents BEGGED me to atleast give it a try!.. I decided life's too short, so i caved. at first i was SUPER hesitant. was on it for a yr & went on maybe 2 dates! ive been a professional bartender for the past 10 yrs- i meet all diff types of ppl everyday. but tend to be extremely cautious when it comes to dating- also NOT a big fan of mtng guys @ a bar ..SO cliche, right?! -- my job!.. jdate gave me the opp. to meet all sorts of jewish guys. & over the course of a few yrs. i finally met someone. we dated for a yr. it didn't work.. i swore i was finished on here. & now find myself back @ sq. one. w/ a positive attitude, nonetheless. *im still in search of my SOULMATE. & i believe he's def out there ;o *im an extremely outgoing, fun individual, always up for anything. i LOVE music. every kind. --my ipod=VERY eclectic--. ive NEVER been a fan of country- but in the past few yrs ive been persuaded-slightly.. im still not a huge fan, but country music concerts ROCK! & i make a cowboy hat look good! lol.* i have an awesome family. amazing friends. i went to PSU for about 3 yrs, but have taken time off to work & support myself. i want to go back to schl for fashion mktng/merch- ASAP, but in the meantime ive been having fun doing what i do best.. im good at what i do, & i have the confidence, so why not?.. just living life. work hard. play hard! i go out when i can- all over phila.*so. umm.. in a BIG nutshell- that's me. *did i mention i like to talk?! ;o* if uve gotten to this point. ur interested. just admit it- ur intrigued. ha. patience is a virtue!