I am really excited to have the chance to maybe meet the love of my life on JDate, I had a brief stint last year with a nice guy, but other than that, I've been single since August 2009. The last time I was on JDate seeking, it was 2007, and my life had just gone though a major transition! So, I am so excited to come back with lots of life experience to add and an honest readiness to prioritize for my personal life (I've been intensely career driven for 9 years with the govt), and hope I can have a chance to meet some highly motivated individuals that I can love on and entertain with my love of adventure and see what happens from there! :D
I've never been married, no children, and not in any big hurry, but I'm looking forward to meeting someone who likes me for all my tomboy-ish ways, as well as my background working in national security and interest in providing for a home and doing "mom" things - cooking, cleaning, etc - I love that stuff. I'm most definitely someone to take home to the family, or to a function at Fort McNair, but probably will be listening to 80s and 90s classic rock and metal music on the way to the event.
I know there are guys out there who want the combination of down-to-earth rocker and conservative respectful lover, guys who are affectionate and communicate well, but can outperform me on a tactical course - come on guys, this chica eagerly awaits!
I best fit in with masculine guys that can feel good as the head of the household and that are good decision makers. I am excellent at being given guidance and coming up with practical options, offering the final decision to my man - this makes me very happy XO and makes me feel useful. I'm looking for someone who will appreciate a woman to do research make plans, set the sights, and get everything ready for him to pull the trigger. I also make a great friend to go to a baseball game or go camping with. I'm warm hearted, I think I'm entertaining and generous, but pretty much live a private lifestyle, so I'd like to get out more and be more social in general, especially for non-work related events and meet people outside of work. I've had a great career and now it's time for me to scale down a little and focus my attention towards personal life and enjoyment, or, at least give it an opportunity to present itself!
I should probably mention that I'm in DC once to twice a month, originally I was going to move back to the DC area, but I took a civilian position at the director level to establish an office in the VA Beach area, so I will stay here at least until July 2013. After that time, I have a life plan which has open doors nationwide and for the right guy, on an accompanied tour overseas if need be, so while DC-VA-MD-NC is preferable, I'm open to gentlemen from elsewhere.