I’m a grounded, open, honest (sometimes to a fault) loving, caring, romantic, affectionate, supportive straight forward guy looking for a woman with similar qualities. I am the father of a wonderful 14 year old daughter who lives with me full-time. I am at a point in my life where it is very clear to me what I want in a relationship and what I bring to a relationship (both positive and negative). I am looking for relationship where both of us are:
-Good to each other
-Genuinely happy (I am and I need to be with somebody who is as well)
-Able to support each other emotionally
-Good role models to our children
-Affectionate and comfortable with affection
-Active and challenge each other to be more active
-Romantic and appreciative of the romance
-Attracted to each other (this may grow over time – see note below about love at first sight)
-Accepting of the other and not looking to change them
-Completely open and honest with each other
-On a path to becoming best friends (but not at the expense of other friendships)
-Financially responsible and share similar financial goals
-Challenging each other to be better people
-Able to enjoy a night out or a quiet night at home
-Emotionally healthy and available
-Able to trust each other completely as it is the core foundation of any relationship
-On the same page realizing that there’s no such thing as the perfect relationship but are willing to try as hard as possible to strive for one
While a true romantic, (I love preparing candlelight dinners, giving little gifts that show my affection, and opening a door or pulling the chair out for you) I don’t believe in love at first sight. First sight is strictly visual so that would be lust or attraction at first sight. Love is something that grows over time.
I tend to be organized and plan ahead. But, I can also be fun and spontaneous like climbing a tree for no reason, or packing an overnight bag for you and picking you up at your office for a surprise unplanned weekend getaway.
If you have any interest send me an email. I promise I'll respond.