I am rather picky, but not in an obnoxious way. I am very independent, always have been, not just for show words on here. Although, I love being in that great relationship. I have never been in a rush for the whole marriage, kids thing. I very much enjoy my life, had an amazing childhood and now adult life which I feel very fortunate, lucky and humble. This is another arena of meeting people which makes it even harder to settle on one :O) I live and work in NYC and like most NYers I love the dining out, shopping downtown, gallery openings, weekend trips out of the city, trips to warm destinations or Europe, and museums to name a few.