I moved to NC 4 1/2 years ago after living in Southern California for 32 years. I am basically an adventurous (I moved here, didn't I?), fun, optimistic and somewhat cultured individual. Love music (blues, jazz, doo-wop...did I said I was originally from NY, and most other types, except rap). Having been married for 18 years, I consider myself well trained (the seat is down). While I am not totally obedient, I can be reasonable. Have been divorced for 18 years, but have had long term relationships in the interim. Have worked in sales for over 25 years, so I can be outgoing, though I do have my moments of quiet. I play at golf and enjoy the gym, but certainly am not fanatic about it (have a few extra pounds). Kids are all grown up. Two were ex-wife's, but are very much in my life as I raised them from a very young age. My other child is the US Marine in one of the pictures I posted (yes, he is Jewish). Seeking to make new friends and relationships here in NC. Have many, many friends that I left in NY and California, so I need to add more here.