I wish more men on this site would take more chances, and not just "view" profiles from afar, but be more proactive. we have nothing to lose. afterall, why are we on this site. I can guarantee that I am more attractive in person, warm, love to laugh, very easy to talk to, and a good listener, as well. please, don't go by age, because if you do, you will be missing out on a woman with not only a very youthful appearance, but a great attitude towards life. I don't believe in drama, and care too much about people, and the horrific events that exist in our world, to be self-absorbed. come on men, take a chance!