I am setting the bar high. Let me start by stating that I will not consider a physical relationship until sometime after the 10th date. So what is a date, romantic dinner for two, dinner and a movie, lunch and a museum, a drive in the country and a picnic or lunch in small town or village, horseback riding, Coney Island for a hot dog, the Bronx zoo and Arthur Avenue for dinner, lunch and the Central park carousel, hiking up bear mountain, or just walking. Be prepared to talk about yourself as so will I. Some of the books I have read Dr. Wayne Dyer’s The Power of Intention, Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now, Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich, Don Miguel Ruiz’s The Four Agreements, Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages to name a few. Yes I am ready to find the person that I will be spending the rest of my life with. I will also consider having another child with someone who doesn’t have any. If you are up for the challenge send me an email. I wish everyone luck in finding someone to love and to be loved.
So there has been a lot of inquiry about the 10 date rule. I guess in that period of time you can find out a lot about a person such as how much alcohol do they consume in a week, do they have a booty call partner, if they have children what type of parent are they, do they keep a clean home and much more. If you are really looking for a life partner it takes a lot of interviewing. If you are looking for a good time and some good sex well three dates is enough for that. I on the under hand have had enough of casual relationships and am in search of my final life partner, best friend and lover.
The week 11/11/2014 it only took the first date to find out the lady I was with thought that drinking two to three glasses of wine three to four times a week is acceptable alcohol consumption. She also thought that her DWI community service requirement was to stringent. So ladies I don't drink not because I have a problem because 99% of the time I am driving and I am not taking any chances. I also try to show my children by example. She also revealed that flirting with other men in my presence should not be a problem. I should be confident. That's a bunch of malarkey if you want to act single then be single if you want to be in a committed relationship be respectful.