If you have a problem with maturity, it's OK, I understand. The question is am I able & willing to slay your dragons and satisfy your desire for love & life? The answer is… yes. Perhaps the question should be, can you satisfy me? I don't follow the crowd, and avoid the 'alpha male' and 'alpha female' mentality. I could care less about proving myself to anyone, except to the one that matters. I have many faults and many qualities, hopefully, my qualities outweigh my faults, but that's for the people I meet to decide. How difficult can it be to see beneath the surface in such shallow environments? We put our "best pictures" up, and write our "best essays," say what we like and what we don't like, what we can tolerate and what we can't, or won't. We wander in and out of chat rooms and afterward if we are spiritual, visit the mikvah. We try to say "witty things" to make others think we are intelligent, and endure the gauntlet of insults from those who find your "wit" offensive. After all is said (or I should say written) and done, what do you really know about the person? The bottom line: you can't really know someone if you don't take or make time to communicate. It is obvious that some come here just out of boredom or for the "entertainment," although ultimately, I believe that most of us are searching for the same thing… someone else to make our lives complete.