I'm smart & funny both at the right times. I know where I want to go in life and I work towards it every day. A man in my life is not a necessity and not having one does not define me, nor does having one. A man should only be added value to the life I already have. I LOVE to laugh and make others laugh, I am not shy about making a fool out of myself for entertainment value. Going out for a really great steak & a nice wine is just as good as sushi or subway. I'm not limited to the same activities all the time, though I do love the water. I'm fairly adventurous though not to the extent of stupidly, I'll play golf, go hiking, catch a movie, back yard BBQ, I'd love to try para-sailing!