I'm full of passions, from politics to tennis. I'm looking for a woman who has a strong sense of humor, intelligence, is attractive and has that "it" kind of charm. Cuteness is nice. A cerebral type is also my best fit.I've got a theory, which may be good news to some women who've ever wondered why a guy didn't call them back after a seemingly good date. I think men generally are more narrowly adaptive to women than women are to men. so we project whether we can really be ourselves long-term. doesn't reflect poorly on the women sometimes when we just know it isn't a good fit.similarly, women may discontinue seeing a guy if there isn't instant chemistry. that may be self-defeating because good men with substance don't open up immediately and put on a fireworks display of conversation.