So I've been on JDate for awhile now hoping to meet someone who is right for me. So here's the Big 4:
1. Attractive: I gotta have physical attraction. That's where it all starts. Equally important are the following 3..
2. Fun: I like a woman who likes to have a good time, go out, and do fun things. If you are a chronic homebody with a vanilla personality, it's not gonna work. Boring people lead boring lives and I'm not one of them.
3. Smart: If you think that 9 X 5 = 63…it's not gonna work. You don't have to be Einstein but there is no way I can take someone home to my family who is not well-educated. If your biography includes "some college," it's not gonna work. Just telling it like it is.
4. Psychologically Healthy: I recognize that there are gender differences and I am perfectly fine with emotional expressiveness. But I draw the line when it turns pathological. If you are clinically depressed or have an anxiety disorder…it's definitely not gonna work.
If you are attracting, fun, intelligent, and mentally fit... I would love to hear from you!!