#1 My daughter. Without her I would be useless.#2 My work. If your heart is not in it, you can't be in it.#3 Finding a partner. The future seems dim without someone to hug, and someone who really wants someone to hug. I am non-confrontational, and have been told that I am those bad things as needy and dependent, and may smother you with closeness. Very many acquaintainces love my personality, and my very few true friends are like family. I have always known that I don't fare well alone- probable a personality flaw. Over the past few years my daughter and I have traveled in Honduras, Puerto Rico, Costa Rica, Mexico, and Peru. The challenges of Machu Picchu and the Amazon brought us even closer.