Quite honestly I could change, modify, add and subtract, to this description every day because what I like in myself and other people is not static.
I am a work in progress and I am finally grateful for that. I have become more solidified in who I am over the years but it seems every once in a while an event or person comes along and changes that feeling of solidity and I find myself faced with the hard questions once again: What am I doing? Why am I doing it? Is it really important? Does it make a difference.
I have two kids (9 & 15) who are two of the greatest people I know and I am thankful for them (almost all the time). I love children and I would look forward to someone who has children. I realize it's all about the boundaries and this can be challenging but I know from friends, the rewards are great. I have a good working relationship with my ex-husband and my kids love him dearly. We all work hard to nurture the ever evolving relationships between one another and again it is challenging but the rewards are great. Family is very important to me. My family lives in NYC and MT so I spend time in both places. We spend about a month every summer in Montana which has proven to be important in terms of connecting by boating, hiking, swimming, rafting, and generally getting off the grid. I am in love with Montana and any time spent there is good for me. In contrast, I love NYC and am always inspired by my time spent there. I love to walk and meet with friends and be with my sister.
I have become inspired by Chabad and am committed to the women's groups I am involved in. I am learning so much and I feel a deep affinity with and for the teachings. I wish I spoke Hebrew and I continue to try to learn but am glad when I remember certain words and phrases that are meaningful to me. I am happy when I am learning. I hope to meet someone to build a lasting relationship and fall in love. I am on this website to get off this website and have no desire to be on it longer than I must be.