I've recently relocated to the San Diego area and love this lifestyle. Spent most of my life in NY and the last 18 years in Portland, Oregon where I still own a home and visit my son often. I don't need to tell you what others say about me. I have many lifelong friendships. I have a great loving relationship with my son. Get along well with his Mom. Get along with family even when they're difficult. Traveled across this country over 20 times in the last few years to make sure mom could finish her life in her own home..I'm at a wonderful place in my life where I'm healthy, have financial freedom and the time to enjoy both. I'm very independent but also enjoy intimacy on many different levels as I'm balanced emotionally and open to both give and receive it.