I've been told " I've never met or been with a man like you". I'm looking for someone I can say and feel the same way about. Spent most of my life in NY and the last 18 years in Portland, Oregon where I still own a home and visit my 24 year old son often.Have loved being in San Diego the last 2 years. I have many lifelong friendships. I'm at a wonderful place in my life where I'm healthy, have many freedoms and the time to enjoy them. I'm very independent but also enjoy intimacy on many different levels as I'm balanced emotionally and open to both give and receive it. While I'm comfortable with my lifestyle presently, I'm more than capable and ready to adjust it for love.