With years, you gain experience, realize more, and learn (hopefully J)from the mistakes whether they are yours or others. So, what is important in my life right now?! First and foremost, my children who I absolutely adore. I also value family ties and friendship, and loyal to them as they are to me. I like quiet evenings as well as going out with friends. Love to cook, host and entertain various gatherings. Great sense of humor is a good medicine for stress and problems in general, and essential characteristic to possess. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and there is no perfect time to achieve certain things. So, just living in a moment and hoping you are out there for me, YOU… a special person, a friend, a soul mate who I can laugh, cry, and share all the moments of this crazy J, but wonderful thing called…life!