I try to be around positive, caring, and genuine people. I am hoping to find a lady who feels the same way, is charming, patient, and thoughtful of others. Her personality more important then looks, one who enjoys the pleasures of both the simple and complicated aspects of life. I was born in the UK, and have lived in many different places, and recently moved to Rio Rancho in retirement. I am (and have been told) a caring, positive, nice, intelligent, thoughtful, handsome (so my daughter tells me) and a pleasant person to be around. I believe the best way to meet is by message first (but not endlessly) then speaking on the phone, and if all goes well in person over coffee/tea to see if we like each other. I am restricting my contacts to those living in my area for now. Hope to hear from you soon.