I consider myself a contrarion. In my opinion, if a relationship requires too much work then something is not right. I believe a successful relationship requires some work, but there is a huge organic component to it.I am looking for someone not to change, but to accept as they are and I will do the same.I have an 8 year old son, so he comes with the package. I love children and feel the more the merrier, Keeps me young and reminds me of our youth, when worries were few and joy was plentiful. I do love sports, politics, conversation and just being. Finally, although there are certain "knock-out" factors in these profiles, I do feel that the power of love supercedes what we can put down on paper, or in this case on the internet in front of the entire world.