Taking each day and finding the positive in all that happens keeps me a happy person and fun to be with. Mixing up quiet with wild and crazy times makes life interesting.Building each other up and looking for the positive in the other person is very important. Being yourself from the beginning of the relationship cannot be stressed enough. Be who you are! Why waste many months and then when you let yourself be comfortable you are hit with a personality completely different then when you first met.Life is short and should not be wasted. There is so much to do and see and feel. How much more enriching it could be with someone who shares the values you share.