2009.04.03 - JGroupI am an active older gentleman, working full time right now, ... lonely as a widower. I am not Jewish but my wife was and 2 kids are. I enjoy the culture. I like people, going places and doing events ... movies, books, beaches.....I am generally quiet until I am comfortable with the event - I treat people well and expect the same ...... I was married 30 years and it was great, I work at relationships ... I am not a wanderer ... I enjoy smart people, .... establishing the various ladder rungs of the relationship so they all function to support the friendship union ... sharing what each is good at and supporting in the other areas.