I have read a zillion pofiles from women talking about what THEY want.
Here's what you get with me:
I'm shorter than what many women are looking for. But I do have a tall personality. I take care of my teeth and see my dentist twice a year.
I'm eccentric. I will talk to absolutely anyone at anytime about anything. One of my ex girlfriends watched me do this few years ago and actually counted the percentage of positive responses I got: 90% positive. After that she stopped worrying about it. While in NOLA at Jazzfest, she watched me get 60+ people in the Jazz and Heritage Tent to get up, lose their inhibitions and participate in a second line parade.
Some women prefer the strong silent type. This is not me.
I ask different people multiple time per day what they want to be when they grow up. Some get a dreamy distant look in their eyes and tell me their fantasy. If you have a fantasy about what you want to grow into, I'm the guy for you.
I like traveling. My Jazz piano teacher is playing at a major venue in NYC and invited me to come and I'm going. Any excuse to go. I like to return to places I have visited frequently because then they become my second home.
I'm back into bicycling. There are two kinds of bicycling. Uphill and downhill. I prefer downhill.
I'm a committed liberal. Currently I have a homeless friend living with me. He has no where else to go. Talk is cheap. It's all about the human condition. It is not my job to judge you if you don't see the world my way. But I will ask you a lot of questions to try understand your position and perhaps convince you of mine and I will try to walk the walk and lead by example.
I'm the kind of person who supports the causes in which I believe with time or money. If you find this trying, you won't want to hang out with me.
I don't regard myself as particularly "beautiful." No washboard stomach. Hair could be thicker. Etc. On the other hand I'm in a position to really enjoy life and make a lot of adventures. It's a trade off. If it sounds appealing, I might be the guy for you.
If you want a younger man, it's not me. Inside I don't feel older than say 35.but he calender does not lie. I look OK for my age. When I turn on the humor people guess me as younger. When I go to Lowes to buy bathroom cleaner and am not in the mood to be funny, they usually guess me in my mid to late 50s.
I'm not looking for a hookup but I do hope to find someone for whom a physical relationship is important. I don't expect this to happen overnight. You would be surprised how many women aren't into it or, worse, consider lovemaking to be some sort of reward for good behavior! Obviously, there is more to it than that .
I do realize it is a package deal and if a woman has younger children or some other "complication" it's part of the package and I can make it work.