I am kind and considerate and enjoy getting to know people more than just superficially. I am a good communicator and interested and helpful when others need some extra attention and compassion. I am monogamous and loyal and not a gamer and someone you can depend on to carry through with what I say. I have worked hard personally and professionally and am ready to kick back a little and play more, but could never be sedentary and would want to work or volunteer some of the time. I can be conservative and quiet but still enjoy having some drinks and be around some loud music and an active bar. I can obviously fit in with my generation, but still enjoy partying occasionally with my children and their friends who are decades younger . ouch that hurts.