girls just want to have fun. now, of course, they want much more but i think that that is a very good place to start off. so that is 1st- at this time for me. the other part - is this: i know for sure that i want to be comfortable to be EXACTLY who i m. I want to be able to say what i m thinking without having to worry if you are saying "wtf" and even if you are saying "wtf" you are open enough to ask wtf i might mean cuz u want to hear it! i m a garden designer, a mother of 2 amazing boys, a business owner and a woman who is ready to live life because i m finally in a place where i m getting what that really means. i m open minded and open hearted and i m looking for like minded people. i know not everyone thinks like i do but i just want to meet a man that is working on himself because you get the "big picture". my idea of a good man is: part evolved- (or at least that desire), part nerd, part risky, part safe, 100% honest and a good laugher- that should about say it all!