I'm looking someone who is fun and outgoing and doesn't take life too seriously. Life goes by far too quickly to waste it on sweating the small stuff. I think the brain is the sexiest organ and I like when a man can show his intelligence. I think life should be full of laughter, love, and lust. I've been told that I don't look my age and I certainly don't feel like I'm 42. Age is just a number and I know so much more now than I did when I was in my 20s. My favorite places to be are outside near the water (especially the beach), experiencing interesting new restaurants, hanging out BBQing with some good wine, and my classroom. Family means everything to me and my two children keep me smiling. I'm very independent, but enjoy learning about other people's passions. Down to earth is a way that many people describe me. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to share life's experiences.