I like to think I am an independent thinker , but want someone that will challenge me. I also love to listen to a good woman. I believe in the basic qualities of loyalty, integrity, consistency and doing what you say you are going to do. I am passionate about what I do. The Ideal Lady would wave that certain something that you don’t know until you feel it. She would make me laugh and would 'get' me. She would want me to take care of her, but would be strong and independent. She would be kind, but quick with the wit. I would just look at her and not be able to help myself. She would love to talk and I would love to listen. She would be smart enough to challenge me and defend her opinions. She would appreciate my consistency and competence and could laugh at me as well as herself. We would be friends and lovers, We could go for hours with out talking and doing our own thing, or not be able to keep our hands off of each other. In short I would think she was just perfect.