It's a new year and I've decided to slightly update my profile. Having had the experiences I've had over the past few years, my perspectives and thoughts have changed a bit and thought it appropriate to share. This has been an experience but I think some of us need to go through a process, mostly not pleasant but necessary as I've learned, to get to a point where we are ready to move on to the next part of our lives and a new partner.
I'm a big believer in right place right time, things happening just because, etc....OK, so now a little about me. I'm a very generous, caring, loyal and monogamous man.. I'm solid in business life, having been in my families business for 35 years. I miss having my best friend, that someone to come home to, to talk to about anything and everything, good and bad. I'm a big believer in communication as I see it to being the key to a relationship above and beyond all else. Of course the physical attraction has to be there, but there's so much more to this puzzle than ones' appearance.. I've become very particular over the past few years, no longer willing to settle, but rather, compromise and fit together.. As we get older, life seems to be going by quicker than ever. I've got a son whose 20 in his junior year of college. I want that missing piece to my puzzle.
I love my music. I'm a reformed dead head and love to go see music whenever I can. I'd sure like to have someone to enjoy it with. You need not love all the same music but I think that music is a form of expression that transcends all. Eagles, Grateful Dead, Jackson Brown, Eric Clapton,... and the list goes on.
.I'd like to meet someone who we can learn from each other. I want to be exposed to new things.
I'm looking for "the one". I'd like to settle down and begin the next part of my life. I've been through my dating phase.
.I'm a bit old fashioned as I believe chivalry isn't dead. I'm a man who still opens doors and treats a woman with affection, kindness and respect. I'm not into playing the dating game, for as a good friend once said to me, "this isn't a practice run. This is real life".
So if I've stirred the pot a bit, you ought to let me know. Please don't send flirts as i think they're lame and I won't respond. Sorry, but that's just how I feel. It's all about communicating...