I’m looking for that rare combination of feeling completely comfortable with someone who also gives me butterflies when she glances my way, and I really want to build something special with a woman who challenges me to be better.
That might be a lot to expect, but I believe that people shouldn’t settle for anything less. My ideal match is just as comfortable at a formal work event as she is hanging out with my friends, and she’s ambitious in her own right. Like me, she is devoted to family and friends, and she enjoys helping others when she can.
I’m drawn to a woman’s intelligence and physical appearance, especially initially. What really piques my interest, though, is seeing how she treats other people. I’m looking for someone who is kind and genuine, and engaging and warm with friends and strangers alike.
My ideal match appreciates that I have stores of knowledge that seem useless until that one random conversation happens. She knows that my vast knowledge about so many different things is due to my diverse work history, and that I lack arrogance or pretense. She find that endearing, loves that I’m a natural in the kitchen and enjoys joining me whether we’re cooking, baking or cleaning up after we’ve made a killer meal together.
She loves the fact that I practice old-school gestures like opening doors and pulling out chairs, but that my views on what women can and should do are anything but archaic. We share an immense appetite for fun and a sense of adventure, and would rather be active than sitting around watching life pass us by.
Most importantly, there’s a true connection between us. That’s not something that we can gauge through a screen, but it’s undeniable when we each feel that spark of excitement when we’re together. If this resonates with you, and you’re here looking for the same thing, I hope you’ll say hello!