May 12, 2014, was my 65th birthday, a time to be circumspect about my life, and so I would like you to know how I contemplate the future with YOU ..... as paraphrased with the thoughts of others:
‘The past is known, it is set in stone, and every new day is a surely a gift, so it’s called the present, alas the future is but a guess, without any guaranty, and that is why living is a mystery.'
'Live life anticipating the best, aspirations high, be kind, be fair, be balanced, but most of all be prepared that when you have given it your all, there are going to be times when you must find the strength within, to rise up after you fall, to try again, and again...until you succeed in the end.’
My life was affected when I became a widower at 48, married at 21, inseparable for 3 years before that, a total of 30 years with 'one' woman. I re-married at 51 thinking my 2nd wife should be completely different from my first love, but I was wrong.
Now I know that I need to find a woman who is intelligent, kind, caring, considerate and sharing...not argumentative, not combative and not suffering from a sense of entitlement. In other words a woman who understands and cherishes the word 'we'.
I think that all things in this life are random and haphazard, and maybe that is why on this day you have stumbled across ‘me’.
Please know that I am NOT seeking a carbon copy of 'a love lost'. I need and desire an original. Be independent. Hold and express your true feelings and opinions, finances and politics included.
My preference is that you are younger then me, 5-10 years would be perfect.
Please understand that I am attracted only to women who are tall, slender, athletic, young at heart, sophisticated and a bit naughty. Alright, I am a little insane.....is wishing for green eyes too much?
Be ready to explore and share an exciting life, filled with endless possibilities.
As the song lyrics go ".....when you look at me across the crowded room, suddenly all I want to do is be alone with you, do you love me, do you love me that much?....."
I know you are out there.......