I’m in an awkward phase of maturity where I’m not sure whether I should be looking for an honest, mature, long term relationship or a fun summer fling. I’ve dated too many jerks and I’m turned off by guys who behave too similar to me in relationships. In most aspects of my life I’m pretty dominant. I’m a natural leader, intelligent, resourceful and innovative. With men I like to take a most submissive role (in an out of the bedroom). It’s not that I want someone controlling or arrogant, but I am more comfortable with someone decisive and confident.I have a tendency to be silly. Irrationality comes with the ovaries, but I try to be reasonable. Some people look at the world through logical or religious perspectives; I look at everything around me from an evolutionary standpoint.Politics are not my strong suite. I don’t have very strong opinions any which way. I lean liberal , but find myself building meaningful relationships with men who are libertarians. It actually gets me into trouble. Libertarians sweep me off my feet with their arrogant , logical, optimistic ways. Then we get into a discussion which starts with me smiling and nodding and throwing some tidbits of information I learned while listening to NPR and it ends with me yelling “I LIKE PAYING TAXES!” crossing my arms and looking at my feet.