A wise man once said,."The things that people in love do to each other they remember, and if they stay together it's not because they forget, it's because they forgive" With all due submission, i say YES! What is love? you must know that it is no definition, but a way of life. Until you know this, you are not ready! and until you are ready, You are not worthy of finding love. Delete the past and let's upload the future together. Some say, the past shape our present, but i say, our presence is shaped according to those experience we decide to accept,. You should refuse to spend the rest of you life in pain, because the person who put you in pain might just be out there enjoying himself, and is such person worth to give up your happy life for? so you must let go of such past and embrace a new dawn. I am self employed and I am a Geologist but my thirst for knowledge about life and happiness has made me a better lecturer or writer, lol.