There was a song years ago sung by Roberta Flack called "Where is the Love". When you find someone who you really have a connection with, some of the other things like your particular interests become less important, because you're sharing an experience. I am looking for someone who is simpatico. That means you have an attraction, trust, caring, understanding, and you're on the same wave length. It doesn't mean that you must enjoy all the same activities. I have an open mind. I like taking day or overnight trips to NY, DC or trying new restaurants, etc. Who doesn't. My particular interests are horse racing and jazz. I enjoy jogging, swimming, racquetball, basketball and tennis. I work in investments. A good conversation is essential. Everything is better with 2. How about you?