I'm Native to Southern California, I live with my 2 teenage daughters and a dog in Ventura County. I am a professional who loves what she does!! Really truly love it and I can control the amount of time I spend doing it. I am not a 9-5'er. Or a M-F'er. But I can be...that's the bonus! Is winter upon us? I'm seeing a lot of "cold feet". It's wink, wink, email, email, maybe another email, can I have your phone number?, then dead silence! What's up with that? Come on guys, just pick up the phone. It's easy! if we get that far, why not at least a cup of coffee? I'll say this - if we do meet, please keep profanities to a level of respect. I can be a truck driver just like any of you (on rare occassions and when provoked :-)), but really?? on the first meeting? I can't even believe I have to say that, but it really happened! I am a very positive person and prefer for you to be too! I have bad days, but everyone in my world doesn't have to be having a bad day also! I'm pretty good at sweeping the junk under the rug and getting on with it! As long as it's just junk. I love to be out and about almost all of the time! I do not want to be sitting on the couch every night waiting for the next episode of whatever is on that night. TV is not that important to me and I will not be a slave to it. A relaxing evening is sitting out by the pool with a glass of wine talking about whatever is floating our boats that day. Oh yeah...I can be a little sassy!