I am looking for a man who can be my playmate, friend and lover. Someone who is polished and sophisticated yet still grounded and playful. Someone who is youthful in spirit and appearance, passionate, compassionate, who wants to connect both emotionally and physically, who is spontaneous, adventurous and has a great sense of humor. I promise if you're my man I will be that for you and more. I am financially independent, emotionally grounded and very genuine. I have two great children: one going into college and one going for a second degree. I enjoy travel, cooking, working out, dancing, live music, Blackhawks & Bulls games, sailboats, skiing both snow & water, oil painting, tennis & golf ( still learning :) ! ), movies,making snow men, shrimp with extra hot sauce, a great cheeseburger, fine wine, raw oysters, deep conversations, and great kisses !! The rest will unfold when we meet !