So it is clear you I are looking for the same ending result, meaning finding someone special with a solid foundation for both to coexist with respect, passion, understanding, loyalty, laughter, trust, the willingness to share the happy & sad moments, and the undivided love to each other.
Through the years I learned that regardless of the list of qualities I was seeking in my search for the perfect match, remaining open minded is the most relevant since some of the best relationship and friendships I have experienced and shared were not going to make it on my list of options. In simple words, we never know until we try. I learned that every two people have at least one common denominator between them, and many times that can be the foundation for the desired relationship.
At this point I hope you are at least slightly smiling because it makes some sence, otherwise, I wish you the best of luck in your search.