As I get older I realize the that going to the bar, clubs, etc. becomes less appealing. No longer can I "fandango." Truth is, even if I knew what it was I doubt I could have done it in my prime. Needless to say, I have an inviting sense of humor. At the same time I use it only when needed. I try and reserve my powers in the event it should dwindle. I'm a teacher. I enjoy it, but I might be looking for something "more" in the future.