I'm happy not content. Opinionated not judgmental. Peaceful not a pushover. Moral not moralistic. Idealistic yet pragmatic. East Village not East Hampton. Humor self deprecating not mean spirited. Complex thinker but don't over think things. Giver. Dad. Monogamous. Driven. Organized. Optimistic. Self sacrificing. Gets it done. Sees humor in everything. Not afraid of getting hurt. You're you. Don't change a thing. With me you will feel good about yourself. If you are looking to explore NJ and NYC, love live music, and movies from the couch I may be your guy. Live sports (esp. soccer, baseball) a plus but not a deal killer. But, if you are looking for a ski partner, travel buddy, and yachtsman I probably am not for you, not that I wouldn't like doing some of those things but I'm a dad first and I cherish my time with them and they with me. UPDATE: ASK TO SEE MY "BANNED" JDATE PHOTO! ps If I were a font I'd be Comic Freddie Roman. pps Will Rogers once said "If stupidity got us into this mess, why can't it get us out?".