To stat off with, I am not Jewish. I have looked at many sites, and can not find a man that is looking to date first, and advance in time. So far they want to start and the finish line.... I want a friend, someone to "date",,,, like the old days. If it advances, terrific, if not we may both find a good friend. Widowed 4+ years. I don't mind being alone, but I don' like being lonely.