I'm a pretty easy going guy, I work on staying fit, but it's not important that we work out together or train everyday It's more about chemistry than looks anyway. But physical attraction is important. I can do some cooking but it would be nice if she can do a little cooking too. She should be ready to dine out on occasion and enjoy a concert/show. I love wine but if she dosen't thats cool, but she should be willing to have a social drink from time to time. I believe in self time. Everyone needs some time alone to to catch up on a book or whatever. This doesn't mean going out to the clubs and I would prefer if she wouldn't do that unless with me. Aside from all that, she should either enjoy watching sports live or on TV, or she doesn't mind a couple hours to do her own thing while I view a sports event. Please no posessive attitudes or jealousy regarding my music and my love of sports.