I work with the ARC of Frederick County to empower developmentally disabled adults and children to live and work in their community. Basically, I'm a life skills coach and I provide respite care. I also work as a libraian in the county jail. (Really) There is much adversity in my life. (not the same as drama.) I have several friends with disabilities and and a few that are gay. I will be upfront with something else to; I have lost most of my hair to thyroid disease. I usually wear either a wig or bandana keep the rest cropped short. I like all types of music, but Melissa Etheridge fits my soul. I sing and write songs and I trained and sang opera in college. I really enjoyed it, but I'm no Viking Queen! I'm short, fat and funny with a big heart; so I won't break yours. I'm Winnie the Pooh meets Drew Carey, with a side of Melissa Etheridge meets Ethel Merman! It's not over when this fat lady sings....it's only just the beginning!I'm not a gold digger, but I am kinda thinking it's time to make financial changes in my life. I am not prepared for retirement. It'd be nice to find someone who has made good financial choices and can help me with my own.