OK, lets be honest...I look at your pictures, you look at mine. Do we pass the first test? If yes, we'll both smile a little, but not get too excited just yet. Then we check out the personal stats, age range, perhaps locations, smoker or non-smoker is a big one etc.. Then it's off to read a little bit about the person, everyone likes to have fun, is positive, loves to laugh, travel and a few more specifics thrown in for good measure. Ya think to yourself, some things in common thats good, what else can I learn about this stranger that might keep me interested and beyond. Ah yes, he/she loves animals, some might even have a pet or two. I hope by now you get the point! am a fun outgoing woman who enjoys meeting new people.the past shape our present, but i say, our presence is shaped according to those experience we decide to accept,. You should refuse to spend the rest of you life in pain, because the person who put you in pain might just be out there enjoying himself, and is such person worth to give up your happy life for? so you must let go of such past and embrace a new dawn.