searcher581D Offline

  • Divorced, Man seeking a Woman
  • 63 years old from Salinas, CA
  • Logged in: 16 hours ago
  • Last Update: 2/16/2015
Have kids:
3 or More
Wants kids:
Not sure
5' 10" (178 cm)
Culturally Jewi…
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About Me

I'm introverted, but not overly so. I tend to be a loner but want to be very connected with my mate. I love to give and receive affection. What scares me, what absolutely terrifies me about searching for a mate at this time in our lives is the notion of settling for the acceptable. Of spending our days with an acceptable partner who is decent and compatible, a balm for our loneliness, a sexual outlet, to be a small footnote in the catalogue of someone else's loves. That is so crushingly sad. On the other hand I believe in the possibility of an exquisite joy. A connection that is deeply intimate and genuine, overwhelming chemistry, visceral and mutual. You appear in the doorway and I can't not smile, my pulse quickens. Magic. Why would I give up the luxury of autonomy and the peace of solitude for anything less? It's not what you do or where you go, it's whom you are with. I am here waiting for you, just as you are there waiting for me.

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