Just an avereage guy who likes to enjoy life and whatever it has left for me. Retired from a city job in N.Y.C. . , spent active time in the service for my country (54-63) in which las few years were incorporated with the S.E.A.L.S. & later a civil service job in the big apple, Marrried, two children on their own, widowed since 2000, went through 2 bad romances lately, and after picking up the pieces of my heart am trying to enjoy life.