3 years widowed, (married for 30yrs). Active, cerebral, trying to regain some of my old athleticism, sensual, cynical. As a hobby I perform standup comedy and poetry. I perform in community theater. I still own and operate a Telecom company. I love to drive to new places, eat in nice restaurants. Listen to music from opera to Jazz but not hip-hop. I am an avid reader. And, I miss the company of a soulmate with whom I can share all of the above, and with whom I can share all of her "above".